Meal Time Experience

When it comes to the meal time experience a good choice is top of the agenda. You will be pleased to know that the vast majority of the food is home cooked from scratch using fresh produce. My personal favourite are the roasts that we have twice a week. The homemade stews, meat or fish pies, cottage pies and fresh fish also go down very well.


You have many choices of where you eat your meals or snacks. Most people choose to eat from a table tray in front of the TV, a few people sit at the various dining tables. If the weather is good the patio area is sure to be popular too. You may also eat in your bedroom, this is particularly important at breakfast time for people who are diabetic to ensure they have enough energy prior to getting out of bed. You are free to eat your meals when you choose starting with breakfast. Some of the people living at Wisteria get up early and enjoy a large cooked breakfast, for those who enjoy a good lie-in, the choice is cereals and toast with a cup of tea. Lunch is usually between 12.30pm and 1pm, but if you are enjoying a good film, have visitors or are just not hungry our cook, will plate up your choice of meal and keep it for later. Our cooked evening meal is served at around 5pm. We also have a supper treat at about 8pm, our kitchenette always has a good stock of drinks and snacks.

    Meal Choices

Our cooks try very hard to find out the meals you like and enjoy and add them to the choices, we always have at least two selections available, the cooks will arrange any soft food or separately liquidised food where appropriate. We are very good at noticing who is losing their taste buds through Dementia, these individuals generally enjoy home cooked curries and chilli's and will prepare extra strong flavoured food and ensure these are ready to be served each day. Our cook is also thoughtful and will make extra strong gravy, extra sweet rice puddings. We also consider traditions when it comes to meal times, bread and butter on the table always goes down well.  The cooks always look at the plates coming back after a meal and enquire who is not eating much and why and see if they can offer alternatives or compensate in other ways.    

We try to keep our kitchen full of different choices. We do not believe in only offering healthy choices of food we also stock some naughty snacks. We, as a staff team, do not like to put on a hat which says ‘I know best’ and insist on people only eating healthy food, why not eat a packet of crisps at break time and go to the pub in evening for a drink! Each of us as individuals choose our own expectations of quality of life and we believe this should not cease when living with a Dementia.

The staff team will show two plated up meals to choose from as the meals are being served. For the people who are unable to visually choose a meal, we keep records of meals which appeal to them. The staff team also notice and record if people prefer small amounts of plated meals or where soft food or liquidised food is more appropriate.

The cooks are also used to preparing vegetarian meals, the cooks have an excellent understanding of a good selection of meals for people who have diabetes.

The kitchen is kept open 24 hours a day, the night staff will find something that appeals if you are hungry during the night. 

Recently we have noticed that some individuals enjoy a good takeaway, this is of course not a problem - if the individual finances are available the staff can easily order a delivery. I do not believe this is a reflection on our food, but just that most people occasionally enjoy a good takeaway, I definitely know the feeling!